KPK - I was wondering what was going on with you. I'm so sorry to hear that your H is throwing the D word around now. All I can say is that the crying will eventually slow. It won't end completely, but it will become less all encompassing.

I have been reading a book I picked up this last week that has really helped me. It's extremely uplifting and inspirational. It's titled "When He Leaves" by Kari West & Noelle Quinn. These two women have been through similar experiences as ours and have come out the other side stronger and with more zest for life. I would suggest any woman going through separation or divorce read this book.

Keep being the best YOU that you can be. That is all that truly matters right now. Do it for you and the kiddo's. They deserve a mom who can find the joy in the small things.

"What lies behind us and what lies before us are tiny matters compared to what lies within us." - Ralph Waldo Emerson

Reflect on that.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!