Husband's Mid-Life Crisis

[addie]

You did awesome today!!! I can only imagine how devastated you must be since the D became final a couple of days ago. But you handled the situation really well today. I'm proud of you.
You need to do the same tomorrow. Be pleasant, act as if, smile if you can, offer him a coffee/drink, something to snack on while he's there going through the rest of his stuff.
Your H noticed some of the changes. He commented on how nice the house looked. I'm sure your reaction today was not what he expected and that may leave him thinking. It's a really good sign that he wanted to keep some of the pictures of you. Don't be too concerned about the shredding of the papers situation. My H didn't want me doing anything for him because that made him feel guilty.
Let us know how tomorrow goes. The best of luck!