Originally Posted By: transformer

Can you "accidentally" be there doing a 180 or GAL activity while he is working on the bathroom??
So maybe when he came over to fix the bathroom, you could leave some muffins out with a note that said, "Hey,thanks for fixing the bathroom!! you are such a great helper!!


Good ideas T - thanks for motivating me to think about it some more. I think leaving sexy underwear on the floor of the bathroom is too obvious, and too much baking maybe a bit mothering and not nearly as mysterious as I want to be. Hmmm.... maybe new sexy underwear hanging on the clothes line to dry might be good, and maybe a bottle of wine to thank him?! The baking might work, as long as it wasnt like I had gone too much out of my way to help him. H definitely used to appreciate when I would make him lunch or breakfast.... but never appreciated all the housework or dinners I cooked (men!!?!)

Any other suggestions would be welcome! Definitely need to work on being more sexy and mysterious as a 180 I think... I've made a few changes around the house (which H has already noticed) - it might be nice to buy a new bedspread cover and make the bedroom fresh and new. I will work on this.

I think I have a couple of weeks to get ready before the work on the bathroom will commence!

Thanks for your help T!! Your the best!


Me - 29
H - 32
Married 7 years
Separated 09/07