You are right. I do worry too much, speculate too much and try to control the sitch too much.
I do the same...I think it is hard not to!! I also over analize every little thing my H says, does and how he acts...I am working on this as well
Quote:
I spoke with my DB coach and I have a new plan that I am excited to put it into action. She was a real motivator
.
What was your coach's advice...anything worth sharing? It's been almost two weeks since I have heard from my H. I'm not sure what is going on with him. Another couple we used to hang out with some are going thru a D, I think my H and the the guy from that M are becoming quite a pair. Hopefully my H will see just how nasty a D can get, and it will open his eyes a little!
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"