Ex picked my daughter up this morning and stayed and talked for an hour and a half. I was late but it was worth it. No spewing or negativity. He is becoming more and more like his old self. We talked about the baby alot and how wonderful she is. This was very weird since he resented her at the beginning of his mid life crisis (she is adopted).
When I got to work I sent him an email because he had asked about my vacation plans with the kids.
I said: "Hey _______
I wanted to follow up with what we discussed this morning. I was doing some thinking and feel it would be best if I did not take the kids to Disney in October since you are taking them in August. This probably is for the better because my funds are limited. I am just grateful that they are going on a nice vacation with you.
Have a Great day...."
Ex responded with,
Trusting
"That was a very sweet email. It is nice to see that side of you, Thank You"
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11