OH HOW HARD WAS THIS DAY!!!???? Very hard!!! I held it together in front of him. OW woman called him & I over heard some of the converstion (his end), he told her that we had not discused that yet but he was going to try to barter. So, I don't know what that is all about. He said he would repay her, sounded like sex talk & he told her he loved her when he hung up. Said he was tired & ready to get the move over with.
I had some Glamour shots made & gave to him for a wedding give, 15 years ago, anyway we found some of those pictures, he wanted the proofs. He got a few pictures of us together when we went to the CMA Awards several years & a couple of us together in our swim suits on the beach in Cancun.
He asked did I have a job yet, he was a little sarcastic about it but I told him that I went for an interview this week & it looked very promising. He asked was it in the music industry, which it is, so since he asked me I asked him if he had a job, he said he did & it was at another medical facility & he is a project manager, he hates that position!! He was a project coordinator at Vanderbilt, they tried to get him to be a project manager, it would have meant more money but he didn't want the pressure, so lets see how long this will last. She has her hooks into him now & once she gets him all to herself & I'm out of the picture, I wonder what will happen.
He did tell me the place looked nice & while we were outside he asked if my parents came up & helped me, I said no I did it all myself. He said, it looks really good. We chatted some about his boss at Vandy that retired about the same time he quit, told me a few things. We talked some but mostly going through things in the house that was not on the list. He traded a couple of things that was on his list for some oriental rugs, which was fine with me, I really wanted to keep them but he gave me back the washer & dryer & a couch, so stuff that I won't have to go out & buy & the rugs will be cheaper to replace. It just bothers me that OW is going to get stuff that we bought together or like the surround sound, 900.00 that I gave him for Xmas one year. I was so excited to give it to him because it was hard to surprise him & he was really surprised & so happy. He also is taking a crocheted afghan that I made so maybe he will think about me everytime he uses it.
Keep praying! I just hope he will come to his senses soon!!! But it doesn't look like it right now, he is all into his new life for now & I hope he comes out of it soon.
