Did want to point out that men do look for solutions to problems. Still worrying awful early but who knows...I would not read into you being there as friends or whatever. I can tell you that often when I am looking for solutions to things like that, I would not be thinking if she was here as W or as a friend...that would not even be part of it.
You are right. I do worry too much, speculate too much and try to control the sitch too much. All things I am working on. PMA PMA PMA. I spoke with my DB coach and I have a new plan that I am excited to put it into action. She was a real motivator. I have been trying to put my needs and expectations aside, but I really need to step it up. Be consistent with my actions and be consistently approachable regardless of his reaction.
Thanks for the male point of view. I suggested that I pay my half of the cell phone bill and car insurance per my coach and spent a few minutes explaining why; that it made sense for me to pay my own bills, that it would help take some pressure off of him etc., but he wouldn't hear it. He also mentioned, when I was looking at a verizon booklet, that in a year when our verizon plan is up WE should get sprint.
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Or it could mean the moon is made of cheese...we don't know. No matter how much we think. But I think it a big positive that he sees you in his future 7-9 months from now. And so I vote positive.
Lmao. Again too much speculation. My roommate seems to be rubbing off on me. Thanks for the boost!!!
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