Hi Sleeper- didn't see your post before I just posted. Thank you too. I know, it's early days, it just feels like an eternity. I'll make it one way or another! ANd I'm starting to try and limit contact, even with the kids- cutting the calls short, no e-mail unless about the kids, etc... And I recently took up Kendo (Japanese sword fighting) which is great for the anger side of things! As I said above, I just didn't expect to be 40 and in this situation- I know it's just a number, but it's a big one!

Thank again.


Me 39
H 45
T13 M11
D6.5 S4
ILYBNILWY July 07
OW e-mails found 12/15/07
H moved out 3/15/08