Believe it or not, I have always done all those things on my own. Oil changes, wipers, plates/tags....everything.
I was thinking about how I just want someone to take care of me. I know I can do it on my own. I've done it for years. But I want someone there for me. Someone who will say...I'll take care of it.
Not that this helps that much SueS, but, I understand completely. I was telling a guy at work how I bought a headlight bulb for my car and I needed to go out in the parking lot to install it. About 45 minutes later he came back into my office and demanded that I give him the bulb.
It just makes you sad, even though you can do it yourself, that you can't count on your H... I didn't realize how much I longed for someone to care enough about me to take of stuff for me.. just because...
Someday, SueS.. Someday, you'll either find someone who will, or you will demand that from your H..and, he will...