You're still kinda early on in this. I know it hurts. I know at times you can't believe it's happening. We've been there and we made/are making it. You will too.
Jack's right. Your H is confused. Mine even said she was confused. He doesn't feel in love with you, yet he's not really sure he wants a D or he would be moving forward with it.
It's going to get better and easier for you. It just takes time. Limit contact with him if you must to protect yourself. Even with kids you can find ways to limit contact. Focus on your children do things to take your mind off H. Fun, healthy things for you.
You are going to make it no matter the outcome.
Last edited by sleeper; 04/11/0811:30 PM.
"The answers are within you" (can't remember who). Unfortunately, so is the bullshit.
