MLC is CRAZY!!! What a Roller Coaster!!!

[Treese]

2ndNoah:

Wow.....first I am so sorry for your pain....I am right in the same boat with ya but I think I got ya beat...not that this is a contest or anything but just to know that others out there are going through the same pain you are helps....no much but it helps...getting a life is difficult when you're on your own...and doing EVERYTHING YOURSELF...fortunately right now my H's money is still going in to our account so I can at least pay the bills...he does keep in contact with his son as the girls want NOTHING to do with him...I can't blame them at this point and he is putting no effort in to trying to mend it...so he loses as far as I'm concerned...he's nice to me around the kids because he wants them to think we're friends...I am so not his friend right now cause I wouldn't be friends with someone who would treat me like this...

So I got hit all in one week, here it goes...I hope you're sitting down....

Monday: OW X called me to tell me that H is spending days and nights with her at his old house and he doesn't want my H around his children...I understand that one..this guy is a little psycho...and likes to start trouble
I call H and he laughs in the phone at me telling me they've been waiting (he & OW) for my call..tells me our divorce is inevitable and lets just get it over with cause it's going to get ugly...well, yes it is....Hung up with him, after sobbing on the phone, I know bad DBing but hey my life is falling apart here..
Tuesday: H brings son home from bball practice, I am up in my room checking my email...to my surprise....an anonymous email telling me my H has a child from an affair 8 years ago...I take the email to him and tell him to read it...fast forward...he tries to run away out the door, I stop him, he kind of pushes me out of the way to get out and my D15 comes running up the steps yelling at him for spending time with someone elses children and not his own.....I slap his face so hard he goes to look at it in the mirror, seriously....by this time son is crying.,.D15 is yelling at H, son goes to call D21 at college....big big mess...
He tells D15 he hasn't been in love with me for 15 years, and when she reminded him she's 15,(he got her age wrong, and she flipped out), and her brother is 10..so he said ok, 9....are you kidding...fast forward...d15 finds out she has a 1/2 brother..bigger fight...she removes family portrait from the wall and he said tell mom not to fight for me anymore...he doesn't love me..night ends.

Wednesday, H's car is having trouble...calls to see if he can use my car...are you kidding...but stupid me lets him...
they call his car had had syrup poured in the gas tank, $1100 damage...guess who did it...yep...OW X...place a police report..I told him to tell the police he was at her house screwing her while cheating on his wife...he didn't like that..too bad..

That was a week of mine...I understand how you feel cause through all this I still love him...I want to hate him...I want to run to the lawyer but I haven't....I want my family back....

So I come here to vent...and it helps....our H's are idiots who aren't thinking about anyone but themselves...someday they'll crash...My h has to some time, he has kept a secret from EVERYONE for 8 years....and he says he doesn't care what other people think it was OUR relationship that went bad...WRONG....it's all him...I take no credit for his screw up..

sorry for the long post but I wanted you to know you're not alone...I'm right with you....promise...

OH, and I've aged 10 years and I used to look young for my age..

Treese