Hey hopeful,

Yeah, I noticed our similarities too. Weird how you think your sitch is so unique and then you get on here and see people with so many similarities and whose spouses are saying the same exact things.

I completely understand about not knowing the approach. I've gotten to the point where I'm just not trying anymore. I love her, but if she's this determined to end our M there's nothing more I can do than not give her any energy and focus on my own happiness without her. R take two people.

No, we don't have kids. That's one of the weird things she said early in the separation - that it would be easier to work it out if we had kids. I just thought WTF?! I mean, she's having an A.

lodo


Divorced: 10/26/08