Hey Brian,
Well the date was fine, had a good time. I really felt uncomfortable being there,like everyone knows & their looking at me (like whats wrong w me or that I'm a fool etc.) I didn't see OW at least not for positive (I don't know what s looks like)just blonde. I think I possibly figured out which one s was just by the looks I was getting, maybe it was my imagination??? I couldn't bring myself to ask H which one s was. I didn't think that would be a good idea. But thats ok as long as s saw me & me w my H, I get some satisfaction. I try not to obcess over h. Oh, yeah I forgot when I went in my H always tells me to go in the kitchen & let h know I'm there, so I did. And I could have died because one of h other co workers saw me (a guy)also a friend of my h, yelled "Mrs. B " Happy Anniversary!" If people did not know who I was or if I was there they knew then, (everyone turned to look at me.) It was almost like he did it on purpose, my H was downstairs & h heard him. Oh well maybe it's a good thing that I don't know what OW looks like, even though most of me wants to know I would like to compare. Is that crazy? I know what you mean about the ordinary I feel that way some nights, but I'll take it any day rather than the alturnative! ( is that sp. correctly) The massage also sounds great I would really enjoy that myself (plus I'm sure it would get me all hot & bothered) I'm sure at the very least she will enjoy it & think how great it was for you to do it for her. Good luck. ~~K~~