We are on a downward spiral

[Bagheera]

I must be the exception to rule. I work a full time job and own two other businesses and still try to help out around the house.

Good for you: I knew that I was taking a shot in the dark with that example, and am happy I missed. I apologize if I offended with it.

My request remains, however:

"So, if you don't mind, let's brain-storm this a bit and see if there are areas in which you can make some small, doable changes. When your wife criticizes or complains to you, what is she complaining about? What does she say changed between your courtship and your marriage now?"

Bagheera