Lodo, we and our spouses are very similar in age and our sitch has some similarity in that when we spend time together, it is great. Whether it is our family time or even us going together somewhere, just us two. I have tried absolutly everything from pursuing, to loving, to withdrawing, to going dark and can't seem to get anywhere with her. Everything backfires. It's like she wants the best of both worlds. Too loving, I'm smothering her. No attention, and she can't take it and I'm the bad one. I just told her that we are not going to be able to be friends if she continues the affair. I didn't get a chance to read all of your thread, but I think I read that you do not have any children. It sure makes things 100 times more difficult.
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
