I am sorry that I've missed being here for you all day. I've been dealing with my own "issues". I am sorry about what you are going through right now. I wish I could make it all better.
I know you feel like you might be losing everything you "dreamed about and always wanted". However, I doubt your dreams consisted of a cheating and lying husband. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm just trying to make sure you have a little reality. This guy is putting you through hell. That doesn't mean the marriage should be over, it just means that you have to outline what you want. What it is that you need to consider allowing him back.
While I love Kalni, I disagree about telling your son. I think he already knows. Besides, I hate lying. Just in general it bothers me. I can't do it and won't (Sunshine, will you forgive me?).
You are a strong woman and a special person. Be strong and show him that strength. He will change or he is an idiot. If he is an idiot do you really want him back?
