Thanks for your suggestions. I must be the exception to rule. I work a full time job and own two other businesses and still try to help out around the house. My wife hasn't had to touch a pot or pan in many years, she never touches the trash, and it is always out on time. I cook (and clean up) all of Sunday, half of Saturday and every morning before school. I am not saying that my wife does nothing, just that I am not one of those come home and grab a beer husbands. Resulting sex from self started housework 0. As a matter of fact, all of this is now an entitelment. Me making more money would make us all happy! I am working on that now, but I am having to bury a dream to do it, so the new search has some inherent pain to it. When viewed from that perspective, it makes me regard my wife as pretty shallow. "Get rich and I'll show you my sex drive!" Chalk that up for loving me for who I am! Do these pants make my butt look fat? Again, sorry for the negativity. I have read many books and tried many of the "tried and true" husband fixers. Cards, flowers, notes, housework, non sexual touching, space, allowing time with friends and family, trips we can't afford etc. Maybe I am missing something.
