Okay, I'm joining the ranks of those who stop coming up with new thread titles and just start adding numbers. My thread is getting ready to lock, so figured I might as well beat it to the punch.
Mandatory Overview: W left suddenly 10/22/07 after "ILYBINILWY". I started DBing my butt off in Nov and we went to C and on some dates, but she wasn't too into things. Then discovered she'd had PA previous summer that had ended but was continuing as EA. She asked for D but then agreed to C again with a new C. That shook things up and we almost reconciled 2x, but each time she said she couldn't get past feelings for OM, didn't feel attracted to me, didn't feel like I was an equal who challenged her. But she was EXTREMELY conflicted and said she needed professional help. After going to IC, she asked me to wait 6 months while she tried R with OM. I said no so she asked for D on 3/8/08. Since then, she has put up a big wall, like she's trying to make the decision stick, though we have very friendly, animated, involved conversations.
I thought D papers would be served by now, but haven't seen them yet. Her parents are buying me out of the house, so I move at end of month. Little contact for past month with W. That's about it.
