I was just getting caught up with your escapades. I guess you are getting yourself strapped in for another weekend, just as I am.
Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
My specific questions are: 1)How do I deal with the fact that he knows he doesn't want to do this but doesn't know what TO do? I need a MAN, to hug, to kiss, to ML, to talk to about life, to support and have support me, etc.
You deal with it in the simplest way possible. You extract the positive from what is present. That would be - "He doesn't want to do this." Also CORRECTION - You may WANT a man to hug, kiss & ML with. You do not need one!! Want VS Need.
It is time to take inventory of your positives. As you know, your family is comprised of more than just your confused H. Think of your family as a whole. I am sure there are many positves to think of there. Most of all do not head in the direction of DESPAIR. That area is ruled over by the Devil. That is where he wishes for you to go. Do not yield to the wishes of the Devil.
Make sure to have enough things for you to do this weekend for either you or you and the kids. Count on nothing from H. He is a long ways away from being capable of doing anything which will make you truly happy.
I hope and pray that God brings abundant sunshine to you throughout your weekend. Bask in the glory of what is good and right. Keep marching and be confident. You are getting it right.
