Somehow, I already knew that your H wouldn't read anything. Sounds just like my W. Ah well, I guess it just means we have to get them to change by changing ourselves.
I don't think it's bad at all that you want to go to your H's work and rub it in the OW's face. Be happy and act confident and if you see her, act like she's not even there. Don't give her the satisfaction of knowing that you ever think about her, that she's anything more than an irritating little gnat in your life. I hope you have a great anniversery, and I hope your H treats you like you deserve to be treated.
I'm starting to really get excited about the Vegas trip, even if it's only going to be 2 days. I don't think we've spent 2 days in a row alone together since my 7yo was born. My W called earlier to say that she'd been checking out some hotels and shows online. It's good to hear that she's excited about the trip too.
She also mentioned what she is doing today. It really helps me to know that. I'm not sure if she is conciously doing it to reassure me, or if it was just regular conversation (I suspect the latter), but it sure helped my attitude today.
Also, I haven't thought so much about the cellphone thing today. Obviously, there is a direct correlation between knowing what my W is doing and knowing that she seems happy, and how much I obsess about what may be happening between her and the OG. I'm sure that the first bad day we have, I'll be obsessing again. Gotta keep that from happening any time soon.
