So nice to hear from you again Theo after your looong sabatical. A few comments on your comments:

Originally Posted By: theoden
Remember, if your daughter is 50% with OW and husband, and she's at home, your daughter will see her at least equally, if not more than you.


Thanks for putting it this way.. Now I'm REALLY upset!!!!!

Originally Posted By: theoden
The OW is a symbol for him of something "other" than you. Perhaps she's more "Suzy homemaker". Maybe she's more assertive. Maybe she wants you daughter AND husband. In may case, my wife wanted the OM to be a father to my children. She was looking for a complete replacement. In fact, it may be the case that he really wanted my kids..


From what info I have gathered, I'm guessing it has to do with the quantity and quality of sex. I don't think she wants my D but knows it is a necessary evil in order to get the man who she wants to be a father to HER children. Other than that, she is snowing him on what a righteous and "good" person she is.. BARF!!!!

Originally Posted By: theoden
I'd be happy to have someone call your elder board and put the thumbscrews on them.


I think I'm ok for now. Thanks for the offer, though...