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Yoyo,

Yes, I a long weekend would be ideal.

Get the extended versions. They are 4 hours each. The regular films are 3 hours each. Huge commitment, but well-worth it.

In the second and third films, Theoden rocks. ;-)

My favorite was the third. Very moving. One scene always choked me up.

The whole series is filled with power, beauty, magic and deep wisdom.




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Allright Theoden....which one?

bet you can figure out a way to clue us in without spoiling anything for those who (gasp!!) haven't seen it.

The 3rd is my fav, too... last time i watched it, I was moved to tears many, many times...

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Originally Posted By: theoden
Yoyo,

Yes, I a long weekend would be ideal.

Get the extended versions. They are 4 hours each. The regular films are 3 hours each. Huge commitment, but well-worth it.

In the second and third films, Theoden rocks. ;-)



Theoden, good idea, when the play is over next week it may be a little of a letdown & I'll plan to watch the movies to cheer us all up! We have the extended versions also, and they are great!

Theoden, you do rock!!! \:\) Karen


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L21959,

Well guessing from my name....I get goosebumps when I see the Ride of the Rohirrim.

Because, L211959, I am much like Theoden, awakening after long sleep to realize my kingdom is assaulted and almost run over.

When I saw ROTK in the movies with a friend, when Gandalf told Pippin about what lies after death, and the shores of the undying lands, "the far green country", my friend began to weep.

--Theoden




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So nice to hear from you again Theo after your looong sabatical. A few comments on your comments:

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Remember, if your daughter is 50% with OW and husband, and she's at home, your daughter will see her at least equally, if not more than you.


Thanks for putting it this way.. Now I'm REALLY upset!!!!!

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The OW is a symbol for him of something "other" than you. Perhaps she's more "Suzy homemaker". Maybe she's more assertive. Maybe she wants you daughter AND husband. In may case, my wife wanted the OM to be a father to my children. She was looking for a complete replacement. In fact, it may be the case that he really wanted my kids..


From what info I have gathered, I'm guessing it has to do with the quantity and quality of sex. I don't think she wants my D but knows it is a necessary evil in order to get the man who she wants to be a father to HER children. Other than that, she is snowing him on what a righteous and "good" person she is.. BARF!!!!

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I'd be happy to have someone call your elder board and put the thumbscrews on them.


I think I'm ok for now. Thanks for the offer, though...

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Theoden --

You've got me weeping right now just thinking of both...

Olive -
Sorry for the mini hijack....
Are you anywhere near Grinnell? I'm going to be there a week from today.

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No problem.. I just have no idea what ya'll are talking about..

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Originally Posted By: runningoutoftime
In fact, OW may know, or hear about how your H is regretful sometimes and missing you. She may have done this hair thing just to make you angry so she can say to your husband, "See what a bad temper she has!!! Why on earth are you missing this woman?"


Hmmm... good point ROOT. I do know that ow is VERY insecure about her place w/stbxh and is trying to push everything along more quickly - H moving in, integrating families, etc... Not to sound paranoid or anything but I honestly believe that she does a lot of this stuff to "one up" me.

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Not only to one up you.... but hoping you'll get mad and act bit@hy just so she can tell your H, "See, she's a bit@h!! I told you so!!!?"

It's easier to D someone you don't like. Be likable. Make it harder for him... and make it harder for her to live up to the type of person you are.


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I have to say that I'm pretty nice to stbxh. The worst thing I do is ignore him when he calls. Sometimes, I just don't have the strength to even listen to his voice.

You will all be happy to know that I got D4's hair evened out and she looks cute as a bugs ear! While at the salon, she got her first pedicure. She thought she was such a princess!

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