Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[Hope4us]

DS19 knows what I've asked of WW for me to stay and try to work on the marriage. I haven't shared that with DS16 yet, but I will. Maybe I shouldn't do that. And it really has nothing to do with me turning the kids against her. I've made sure in my conversations with them to make sure I don't bash her at all. But I will be HONEST with my kids. I think it would do them more harm than good to lie to them by omission of any of the facts. If she can't handle the kids knowing WHY we're separating/divorcing then sorry. It's consequences. She keeps repeating to me that I've made her look bad. Excuse me? I've made her look bad? Hasn't she taken care of that herself?

I still don't know what her having another job would accomplish. There's still email/phones anywhere you work. And I believe for the most part that they won't be getting together, but the EA is alive and well if you ask me, and I just don't know how to get around that. And if I suggest a different job, boy, talk about controlling.