We both work for the same company. It wouldn't matter if she transferred or if she quit her job. We could transfer back to our hometown but that still wouldn't stop her from emailing/calling OM. She could still email him from where ever she was working. In reality, unless the two people involved in an affair are working at the same location, quitting the job is pointless. And OM works for our company but at a site ~250 miles from us.
I've just been going over in my head what I'm going to say tonight. Man, this whole thing stinks. I know you guys say to not involve the kids, but if she won't bite on the NC thing, I don't know how I couldn't tell the kids that's why I'm filing for divorce. Maybe I'm wrong, but I WILL BE HONEST with them.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.
