Originally Posted By: sandi2

I will tell you something that my H used to do that was a complete turn off for me. I would be washing dishes and he would come up behind me and feel certain parts of my body. Well, here I am trying to do "practical stuff" like washing dishes and I certainly don't feel romantic and how am I suppose to respond to him gropping me from behind and I have my hands in dishwater?


Ok Racer and Sandi,

Ya both make me feel like an idiot.. I have done this.... Well in the past... WAY PAST... like over a year ago.. If I did it now I would get slapped...

Maybe it is something in our jeans... .. I don't know... I
I really thought of it as more of a hug with binifits.... If I could only undo the past...




Originally Posted By: sandi2

I tried many times to tell him that to come up behind me and kiss my cheek, touch my neck, back, ear, and be sweet about it was ok,




Thanks for the info.....

Originally Posted By: sandi2



Instead, he turned away in a huff.
The "pouting" is what I've seen many times when he felt rejected. If they only know how childish that appeared to women.


Yep that was me....

Dr LOve

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know