So I just say to her tonight, "I'm not controlling you at all. You said you've told OM that you can't see/talk to him again. Why is it a problem to send a NC letter then? If you won't/can't do that I can come to no other conclusion that you're not really in NC and hence still having an affair with him and I will act accordingly?"
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Should I just drop for now the getting rid of affair stuff and counseling/books?
No, not if it was part of your "deal-breakers." You don't have to DROP, ANY of them. Just don't keep bringing them up over and over again.
