Jealousy Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

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Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2 Puppy Dog Tails #1414716 04/11/08 07:22 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,628 Ohio H Hope4us OP Member
OP Hope4us Member H Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,628 Ohio	I guess I'm at the point where she claims NC. So I just say to her tonight, "I'm not controlling you at all. You said you've told OM that you can't see/talk to him again. Why is it a problem to send a NC letter then? If you won't/can't do that I can come to no other conclusion that you're not really in NC and hence still having an affair with him and I will act accordingly?" Then maybe you line "I don't want a divorce but I am not willing to live in a marriage where you continue to have contact with OM". Should I just drop for now the getting rid of affair stuff and counseling/books? Hope4us Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.

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Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/06/08 10:36 AM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Tia	04/06/08 01:46 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	LL44	04/06/08 02:08 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/06/08 07:09 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/06/08 07:20 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/06/08 08:32 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Starshyne	04/06/08 09:47 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/06/08 02:09 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	LL44	04/06/08 05:34 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Starshyne	04/06/08 06:08 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/06/08 06:32 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/06/08 07:05 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	NoCodeBlues	04/07/08 01:08 AM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/07/08 10:38 AM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/07/08 11:22 AM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/07/08 12:06 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/07/08 12:46 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/07/08 12:52 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/07/08 01:00 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/07/08 01:32 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/07/08 01:44 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/07/08 06:27 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	InLikeFlynn	04/07/08 07:45 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Abbey	04/07/08 08:17 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/07/08 08:49 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/08/08 03:29 AM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Starshyne	04/08/08 03:45 AM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/08/08 10:41 AM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Abbey	04/08/08 12:12 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/08/08 01:23 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Doing_My_Best	04/08/08 01:54 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Sugar and Spice	04/08/08 04:45 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/08/08 06:36 PM
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Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/08/08 07:06 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Puppy Dog Tails	04/08/08 07:08 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Abbey	04/08/08 07:29 PM
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Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/09/08 05:05 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Sugar and Spice	04/09/08 06:55 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/10/08 10:31 AM
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Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/11/08 01:42 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	LL44	04/11/08 01:47 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Snow White	04/11/08 01:48 PM
Re: Hope4us' Struggle, part 2	Hope4us	04/11/08 01:57 PM
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