Hi, how's it going, have you been successful in not snooping & confronting about the cell phone? I had a little bit of a backslide sort of. Last night H came home said h would have been home earlier but h got into long discussion. I said with who? The OW & some other co worker(about the problems w our S14) h didn't say what the talk was about w OW & I just couldn't bring myself to ask, I'm not sure why. But I was alittle distant & h noticed, & got alittle upset (sort of) but later texted my cell "love u" which made me feel better those words don't come to often(never did)(so it's not unusual) I just don't know, I trust there is nothing going on, but I worry it could so happen again if h feels I have so called changed or we have gone back to our old ways so to speak. Today h wore jeans to work instead of work pants (today was supposed to be h day off but h had to go in to help out anyway (we need the extra money & it's not h normal day off anyway) So now I'm all in a panic thinking h going to go out after work & w the discussion last night w OW, it makes me wonder??? I thought I was handling all this pretty well but I'm thinking maybe not as much as I thought. Any suggestions??? I hope all is still well w you, you sound like such a nice guy. ~~K~~