Thanks GF. Our situations are different because we don't have kids. That is why I am thinking I when I move on...I have to completely shut that door. If I don't, it could keep me from ever having a healthy relationship with anyone else. I really think I would feel different if we had kids. I probably would always leave that door open.
If you didn't have kids do you think you would have taken your H back??...or would you have moved on with the other guy? You may not be able to answer that, just curious.
As for this weekend, I am going to meet up with the in-laws. I was going to go tonight and spend the night but it is storming really bad and we are supposed to have tornadoes. I am thinking now I will just get up in the morning and go. To be honest I would rather stay here and hang out with friends....but I already made a committment to them so I need to stick with it.
