Well he doesn't sound like he knows what he wants.
So what does that tell you?
Not trying to be funny or cute here, I would really like your answer.
GAL doesn't mean you don't see him or interact with him. It just means your not moping around the house keeping the home fires burning waxing away until he comes home. It means you are out there enjoying your life, learning stuff and having a good time.
NC or Going Dark/Dim that means you limit contact.
As for crying? I'm a guy, I really hope some wonderfully wise woman posts here soon for you KPK, but as a guy...You are not tired enough of crying to stop. That wasn't meant to be harsh, reading it it sounds that way, but it really wasn't. You will stop crying, when you are ready to.
You asked a question we cannot answer, maybe you should.
Why are you waiting?
I can offer reasons, but only you have the answer.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 04/11/0806:55 PM.
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