Sandi, I can SOOOO relate to the gropping that you described, I to have experienced almost the same thing. I would just be standing there doing something and wham he was on me like a fly stuck to fly paper. But my H finally got that that approach was not working with me so he stopped, but it was not after a lot of complaining about it. I wish I would have known to use the approach you did, I think I would have not had to put up with it for as long as I did if I would have. I guess I never really knew how fragile the male ego was until this happened. My H is typically a very strong kind of guy, not a whole lot bothers him. He will normally let things roll off of his back.
For this weekend, I am still up in the air as to what to do. I did pack a skimpy outfit for the evening, so I guess we will start there and see where things go.
But one thing that I am amazed at with this board this time around is how many of us are experiencing the exact same thing. The last time I was on here there were not many that came to help me out that were saying the same thing that I was going through. I find that very cool at least that we are able to use what has worked for us and pass it on to others who are having the same problem with their spouses.
I got to get back to work for now, I just wanted to get a quick reply out there before I head out for the weekend again. Post more on Monday hopefully, I am off from work, !!!