Going back to yesterdays post to you, I simply do not get how you can be thinking about "him choosing you."

Is it that simple?

I mean, even if you believe he has, for whatever unknown reason, decided to break it off completely with the other woman, do his recent words somehow convince you that he is otherwise devoted to you?

More importantly, if this is really MLC, and if MLC is really a process for these spouses, are you ready to take him back before he's completed his journey? Keeping in mind of course that his journey so far has involved sexual relations with other women AND proclamations of love for BOTH of you?


The point that I'm trying to make Kissak is that your husband is a dope right now. He's a MLC moron. His head is so screwed up that you are good guy/bad guy, the person he loves/the person he hates, etc, etc.


Why do you want to LIVE with that each day?

Are you eager to emmerse yourself completely in his madness, just so you can say that he's come home?


I'm with IMP here. Leave the man alone. Quit pondering HIS choices. Quit worrying about where he is. You said it yourself, he's a big boy now capable of making his big boy decisions.


For the life of me I cannot imagine why we are constantly DRAWN to the madness of our spouses in MLC, but trust me, it's totally NUTS.


Blessings,

Bill

"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."