Wow! I see some great positive things going on. I am going to tell you not to bring up the cell phone, even though I am not so sure that I could keep my mouth shut, that was always a problem for me. I'm getting better at it though. I know this is a slap in the face for you finding out that your w is contacting the OG. Let things ride for a while keep DB'ing and see what happens, it sounds like things are going great otherwise, if she sees that she will hopefully contact the OG even less or not at all(which is what you want to happen) My H got a little mad at me last because h cell kept beeping that h had a message (3) I said aren't you going to check them, H said I'm not worried about it. I said what if it's important? So h checked to see who called it was you know who (OW) I couldn't help but ask (h told me) & I asked why s calling (mind you h didn't check the messages) H said s calling to see if s getting fired I guess s been blowing off work lately( my H has that authority) I said it was just an excuse of course h got mad & said h didn't care what I thought, then I had to express the fact that I thought it was an excuse on OW part not his. He got over it I was kind of jacked all night(tried not to show it but h can read me pretty good) but I didn't say anything else about it. I wish s would just get fired.
Then h got mad this morning because my oldest did something he shouldn't have (almost daily)(he gives me (us) alot of grief) so of course we argued because h feels that I should be able to watch s(14) every second. I can't I also have a s(4), d(2). Come on. I ended up letting h be mad me be mad & just let it drop, it wasn't going to get us anywhere but in a deeper arguement. I hate the fact that I have to keep things inside because I don't want to rock the boat. Well Bri, try not to say anything just yet, in time maybe you'll be able to bring it up and talk about, maybe you won't need or want by then, I don't know. But I think things are looking up & that your feeling somewhat better &(the sex is a good thing too) ~~K~~