Not going to call you SoSad, How about NY instead?
NY,
Careful, or your going to sound like a misandronist.
Anyway, Check out the resources at the top of these threads for ALOT of information about Midlife Crisis.
There is a theory amoung several of the women here, that a latino man's midlife crisis is different than say a caucasian man's mid life crisis.
I believe there are three of them, but I only recall two. You might want to get some advice from them.
Valentine, she posts here in MLC Land. Lissie, she posts in Surviving the Big D.
Don't let where they post scare you, these are strong women, who have been through hell and have amazing advice and insights.
Do not confuse the actions of a man in MLC with the actions of all men. If this is your experience with all men not just those in MLC...find a new one, raise your bar.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK