hi peace- It was sort of mutual at the start. Right at the bomb, he said we should see a C, and I found one and we went a few times. At that point, he was just ready to cash it in and run, seemed to see the C only to discuss how to deal with things for the kids' sakes. I didn't feel like the C we were seeing at that time helped us at all, so I started looking for another one, who was goal-oriented, and I found the woman we go to now. He wasn't into it the first few times, blew it off once or twice, but now it seems to be working.