Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[Hope4us]

Thanks Puppy. The first thing I thought was HEAVY FOG ALERT in Eastern Ohio.

Maybe I didn't understand that part about the conflict/withdrawal stages of marriage I guess. I just thought as long as she was at least talking/sharing it was a good thing. And she's definitely angry which may indicate NC, but I doubt it.

I thought I'd try to reason with her this time, not that you can reason with a wayward. I'm going to talk to her tonight, tell her that NC is an absolute minimum. I'm going to ask her what she has done that SHOWS me I can trust her? Because this time, she's really telling the truth, not like the last year when she said she was telling the truth? If she won't agree to NC then I'm going to see a lawyer. She's also trying to get me to not tell the kids anything more. Nope, that won't happen. If I'm going to see a lawyer, they're going to know why. I'll also tell her she can do the right thing and move out nicely or she can make me spend DS19's college money to make her move.

Maybe I dropped the ball. Was probably the time to put the nail in the A coffin, but I blew that. Oh well, I can always regroup. Let her know I was throwing her an olive branch but obviously she is still so f'd up over OM that she didn't see it and I won't put up with it any longer. I'll get in there that I'm sorry she see's it as controlling that I have to have her agree to NC, but I won't take anything less and see what she says.