Before I get started with a marathon post, I wanted to reply to yours. 1st, yes, you do help me, and I always appreciate it. About your anniversary, I would suggest just getting another small gift (like chocolates you could share together) and a nice card, maybe adding a few heartfelt words. I wouldn't go overboard, but I wouldn't ignore it either. What you say in the card will mean the most to him. If he isn't going to be around in the evening, maybe give it to him 1st thing in the morning instead. Good luck and let us know how it goes.
