Hi Bri,
I understand about the confusion and mixed signals all to well. It isn't really like that much now but I remember all to well, like it was yesterday. Maybe your W cell phone fell out of h purse & ended up under the seat.??? Possible but I know how you feel. I know you want to know but I wouldn't bring it up I think you are making progress & that might upset her & possibly send right back to talking to the OG. I wouldn't want that to happen. And don't forget think baby steps the kiss in the morning & she'll try to be home early. I know those a little things but good non the less. And you had a good night on the balcony, that sounds good too. Take it slow, be h friend it sounds like things are turning around. I know I think it stinks that our S are the ones that screwed up & we are the ones trying to piece things back together it doesn't seem fair does it. And if you don't think your W has gone to see the OG go with that feeling, our gut is usually right, I know you want h to get over h, but you can't force it, just try to back to the way things were before you found out make it even better, don't forget s gave the big hint. I hope I help a little. Now I have ? for you, My Anniversary is Thur. that is usually the night we go out but the other chef is on vac. so my H has to work, I already gave h an early present that h needed before our A. Should I make a big deal about our A or just give h a card and leave it that? I never know what to do I am alwqays afraid I do to little or to much, never know which way to go. It almost seems kind of strange for us to celebrate our A this year after all h has put me through I almost would like to skip it this year, because I think I'll feel better about it next year. Make any sense???Well please let me know how things are going, I'll look forward to hearing what a wonderful full day you two spent together, you vowed to make it a good day. Go for it. ~~~K~~~