The 25th anniversary of the marriage was far different then I ever imagined.
The silver lining is... I accepted what I don't have, and embrace what I do have.
A spouse respects, loves, protects, is the cheerleader in the corner, best friend, someone you can trust or turn to in a time of need... a husband, a wife.
Based on his actions, I no longer have a husband. Since he no longer holds that cherished position, I do not give away the beauty of being a wife, someone who does for the sake of doing, based on love and respect.
No one is perfect, everyone is flawed.
In the end, I am blessed with three incredible children, memories of a time of love and trust, supportive family and friends and..
a new beginning based on respect, love and trust in and for myself radiating to those around me.
