I don't really know how to drag my heels at the moment - very little contact with W and am facing D papers and moving. Best option I see at the moment is being pleasant and friendly whenever we do have interaction and just get through this month. Once I'm in my new place and she's all alone in the house, she'll have time to reflect about what's going on. Especially since I'm getting involved in new things that she's aware of.
But do I want her back? I find myself struggling more and more with that question.
Anyway, I dread the papers coming as well as dividing up our stuff, but as mentioned, we still have a waiting period that's as long as what I've been through so far. A lot can obviously happen. I'm just concentrating on myself and trying to make myself happy at the moment.