Hi sh-
You sound like you are in a really good place. You are trying to maintain a good, friendly R with your H and moving on creating a new life for yourself. On top of that you see that you do have many things to be grateful for in your life.

Moving is tough but I am sure it will be rewarding for you in many ways once you are in and settled. Hopefully your boys are excited about your new place.

Thanks for sharing your PMA with us...it can be contagious.

<3
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