Like you Kris... I trusted implicitly. We gave each other way too much freedom and ended up neglecting each other in the process. Mine's got the added idea that my suddenly having "a life" or trying to while he was on the golf course playing 2 rounds a day... is ME acting single. *bangs head on desk repeatedly*

He's busy trying to justify his ... er... affaaaaaaaair ... in his own head by rewriting history. As I mentioned in my own thread,... I went quiet on him when I came back from the T and very calmly set a boundary there. "We neglected each other. I'm not going to argue with you, but I WILL NOT allow you to rewrite history that simply disregards YOUR part in this marriage melt down."

Still odder ... is that HE still thinks I had an affair on him- my women's intuition tells me this through and through. I had a fondness for a friend because I was left alone for 4 years.... I've admitted my part in this mess. He has not... has decided it's easier to tell me what he thinks I want to hear to get on to ... whatever.

Abbey

T:22, M:20
H:55 Me:45
H-OW PA: N/07
OW Jan08
Bomb:Feb/08
S: Apr/08
Back together Ap1/09-Sept/11
Oct, 2011, uncertain future/H is a mess.
Dec/11 - Doin'friend mode. Some days are better than others.