Originally Posted By: NoCodeBlues
On another note, your H sounds like he's suffering from depression. I say that because his moodiness sure sounds a lot like I was, all sullen and temperamental. Maybe he needs to see a doctor?




Thanks Nocode and Yoyo! Thanks for the rose, nocode! \:\) I think H is suffering from MLC maybe also, I think they have a depression stage in there, and he has certainly gone through the first anger stage, and the Replay stage is the second when they have affairs, and I think depression is the 3rd stage maybe? He says he is seeing a C for his anger and other issues so hopefully the C will help but I think he probably does need an AD which he will probably never take b/c he is a sober alcoholic and not wanting to take drugs of any kind (even prescription ones) which I think is a mistake though b/c he probably is depressed and that would really help him!!! (and me having to deal with him too! \:\) )

I agree with you Yoyo that I probably shouldn't have to email H, but would be doing that for my son's sake really, b/c I think it might be good for H to know what is going on in my son's head and that S14 wants to spend more time with his dad. H did ask the initial question how did it go, but I think he ran out b/c maybe he was afraid I would tell him something that would hurt him or make him feel guilty (like what S14 said about his dad not being around much before he moved out) which I have decided I won't say b/c I think that would probably hurt H plus put him against S14 getting future therapy possibly & I want H to be on board b/c I think it might be good for S14. (H is already a little hesitant I think b/c they are seeing my therapist but his is like a Marine drill instructor (kind of scary and gruff) and my C is like a motherly, sweet type who has already gotten a bunch of info out of my non-talking S14!!!! \:\)

Karen

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