Well, the streak ended at 3 good days in a row. My W took her friend to the airport, and since the timing would have worked out perfectly for me to meet her near there after work for dinner, I called her to suggest it. She was in a bad mood and accused me of only wanting to have dinner with her as a way of checking up on her. My protestations to the contrary were shrugged off. Then, she was late coming home by about an hour. We argued. She said she had just pulled off the road and sat there, had not called the OG, but just wanted to p**s me off (it worked!). Did she actually call him? Who knows, but she certainly has a sense of entitlement. She said that she almost called him, since if I thought she was anyway, she might as well. This was just what I was afraid of, and one of the main reasons I have decided to stop snooping.
She still refuses MC and insists that we can do this on our own. I'm less hopeful. We often seem to be OK, and try to never let the kids see the real situation, but our mutual anger seems to be never too far from the surface. Why does she do this stuff that just tortures me? I really have no idea just what it was that set her off yesterday. It always is up to me to try to make sure that we talk it out, and it's always up to me to try to make it better. In the end, we agreed that I would try to not assume that she is in contact with him, and she would try to not assume that I am always checking up on her.
