Husband, at least you're seeing opportunities that you can grab on to. So start grabbing on to them! The garden is a great idea.
Regarding the chiro, I would hope that he will soon teach you some exercises to strengthen your back and stretches that will allow your body more movement. My chiro has me do both of these (OK, I don't do them all the time), plus stretches to my shoulder because he's seeing my shoulder round a little and while it's not a problem now, he wants to nip it in the bud. He does adjustments and light massage to release tension in certain muscles. I love going to the chiro, always feel so darn good afterwards.
Can't go to the beach Saturday, but will be closer to your neck of the woods on Sunday (Richmond, Annie's Annuals big spring party).
Me: 42/H: 37 T: 10 years/M: 8 D9, S8 Bomb: 7.23.07 Separated: 1.20.08 D Final 3.19.09 Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09