Patience is key

[addie]

Thanks for your opinion Stella. I agree it would be very difficult on me.
I decided to send H an email late last night telling him that it would not be in the best interest of either one of us to be living together just for financial reasons. I told him that I would only consider moving back together if we were to address some of the issues, but that I realize he is still very confused and may not be able to do this.
I feel that H is wanting to recommit to the marriage but is still confused and is waffling back and forth. For my own emotional well-being, I needed to set some boundaries and if this pushes him further away then I accept that. I haven't heard from him yet.