Hope4us' Struggle, part 2

[Hope4us]

Well, I may have wimped out some, but I responded to her note point by point. Don't know if it's acceptable to say here, but I've been working with Marriage Builders and if you're familiar with them, it seems that she's gone from the withdrawal state to the conflict state which is necessary before you can move into the intimacy state. I figure as long as she's dumping on me, at least she's sharing her feelings and that's what I NEED to begin to break down the wall that's between us.

I didn't want to throw down the gauntlet if she's at least TALKING to me about it. That's the first step in WORKING on the marriage. We'll see how she responds. I can always pull out the plan FU if I need to.

I'll let you know how she responds.