I ended up having to speak to him today. I found out that our tax refund had been withheld due to back child support owed. He only owed for one month, and that was the month he had moved back out in sept and he had mailed in all payments. He isnt a dead beat he in my opinion shouldnt have been made to pay that month because he had paid alot of the bills for me because he was living there....but anyway he did pay, but something wasnt right in Raleigh and they ended up keep almost $2000. He only owed $64....really I have no idea what is going on. I cant find out from child support until the end of the month because they dont show him owing...anyway, I had to call him. I left a message for him to call me. He did about 30 min later. When I answered he said "yes"...no hello or anything...I just said hey and u ok? He said Yes, Im ok...then I told him about what I had found out. He really didnt act interested or anything. He told me to call the IRS...so, I said I would. I asked what he was going to be doing on his day off! Trying to be upbeat...he just replyed...absolutely nothing. Sit on his a@@. I said ok, and I hope he enjoyed his day off. He said nothing else but thanks and bye.
I recognized that he wasnt at OW's house and that there was a different vehicle at her place. Maybe she will find someone else. Maybe he went to his therapist this morning...who knows. Im just ready for him to hit bottom already....
He is looking for answers and God is up there waving at him and saying "ask me!" Why do people wait to ask for God's help last? When will he realize that he can be happy if he will have faith in God? Sometimes it just takes having someone hit rock bottom for them to ask...
I do remember asking him months ago when was he going to "try" God....he said he may do that next. The devil has his grasp on so many of our spouses it makes me sick. SOOO many people around here are leaving there spouses because they dont love them anymore or they are having affairs....it is so driving me to do something about it....I have this desire to want to help people who are in trouble marriages and I have no idea what to do.
*sigh*
Kissak
"What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee." Psalms 56:3 M-37 H-37 S-10, D-15 M- 1993 First bomb- 12/23/06 Came and went too MANY times! Gone again 10-25-10
