Hi Bri, I know what you mean about the highs and lows. My H used to send me so many mixed signals, I thought I was crazy. I am glad for you that your W broke it off. Try to trust in the fact that she did & meant it when she decided to be with you. It will be very hard we were hurt terribly & there is not much trust there if any, but if you want it to work you have to start somewhere. I had a hard time because I always wondered if they were still in contact especially since they work together. I still have days when I wonder why I am putting myself through this, because a part of me worries so much about this happening again since it already happened once. I have to force myself not to dwell on it, not that I'll ever be able to forget it just try not to dwell on it so much. Everyone makes mistakes in there lives although this a huge one pretty much unthinkable, I hope we can work through it & make things better. My H doesn't talk about it with me I think he just wants to forget it happened(understandable) and I don't really ask to much because I am not sure if I want to know things I think for me it would be to hard to hear the details. I know you also want to be intimate with your W it'll be hard, but try not to push to much, maybe plan a few dates together and have a good time & all will follow & come naturally for both of you. I surely hope all works out for you, they tell me patience is a big key. Let me know how you are doing. Glad to hear you returned safely from your trip. ~~K~~
