It ended about 2 years ago now with her basically telling me that she was going to end it, she decided she wanted to stay with her family and not start all over again. This was in Feb. but I knew she continued to see the other man until May.
I do not know that the affair is over. She tells me all the time they are great friends (they do still talk, he invited her to his wedding and he came to her mom's funeral) but that nothing is going on between them. She also talks to and contacts a younger guy that she works with on a regular basis that I worry about.
I have been sleeping on the couch now for almost 2 weeks with no response from her. We don't talk and we don't touch..and it does not bother her a bit. It gets hard to hide the pain that comes with all of that.
